On Mon, 2006-12-11 at 19:28 -0800, ols6000@xxxxxxxxxxxxx wrote: > Instead, > you collectively should Whoa! There's that pesky word "should"... kinda aggressive, especially when no one on this list does the trained seal bit, especially for no fish. Exchange "should" with "...it would be better if..." or "...according to my perspectives..." Then "should", and the moral high-ground that it occupies, is not fuel to a potential fire. It's an interesting experiment to go one whole day without using that word. I damn near turned blue, but I learned something I needed to learn. I used "should" a lot and needed to see that firsthand as well. ;) Ric