On Tuesday 27 June 2006 15:28, jdow wrote: > From: "Aaron Konstam" <akonstam@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> > > > On Tue, 2006-06-27 at 16:35 +0930, Tim wrote: > >> On Mon, 2006-06-26 at 15:28 -0500, Aaron Konstam wrote: > >> > I might as well get this off my chest there is one member of this list > >> > that sends me responses to my list messages at my actual address as > >> > the primary address but does not allow his e-mail address to accept > >> > mail. > >> > >> Most likely me. As I've told people before, if you don't want private > >> messages, don't ask for them with the reply-to header. It means send > >> you a reply, it doesn't mean that I can *choose* to send me a reply. > >> The reply-to header is an overriding instruction, not an option. > >> Though, in this case, I've wiped it out. > >> > >> You're misusing reply-to, you get to reap the consequences for it. > > > > I wish we could discuss this off list but you have made that impossible. > > What I ma asking you to do is to use the reply to list feature of your > > email program. It does have one does it not? > > Somehow when I reply to a list post the post goes only to the list. Why > > doesn't your replies do that? > > What's interesting here is that the FC4 list gives about half the > messages two addresses in the "Reply-to:" field. The other half > have only the list as the "Reply-to:" field. I am not sure what > causes this. > > {^_^} Having followed this thread, I feel a bit embarrassed. Complaining to myself about spam, it seems I'm adding to bandwidth wastage by normally using reply to all when replying to mailing lists. I've just added "reply to mailing list" to Kmail's toolbar, which seems to be the correct way to go. If you use reply, or reply to, and the "To" line shows both the originators address, and the mailing list's address, both addresses are emailed. Reply all, obviously does just that, including anything in CC. This often results in bounces from the mail originator. My crummy ISP that seems to be favourable to spam is having DNS servers blocked by SORBS, and others, resulting in bounces, and more wasted bandwidth. This is another good reason for using "reply to mailing list" Question: I download email using Kmail directly from my ISP's pop3 server. I don't get a lot of spam, and can put up with the 419's, "you have won the lottery", and so on. The stuff that sickens me is, viagra ads, cialis (whatever that is), and how to make your procreation tool larger ads. This sort of stuff can turn up in young peoples inboxes, even childrens. Is there something I can use with Kmail on FC2, that I DL my mail to, that will detect the spam and just trash it. I could rant on about the ISP's responsibility to stop spam at source, but that's a right waste of time. They are only interested in getting their monthly payments from their clients. whether they are spammers, or clients with compromised Windows machines, who due to their own stupidity, naivety, have allowed their machines to be used by spammers as relay stations for spam. End of partial rant. A tip on how to get rid of the sex spam would be appreciated. Nigel.